wipe away those tears

how can one short conversation completely change my emotions?

this friend, the one who i got fairly close with last year, just talked with me about something.

bachground.
we got close, it ended fairly badly over something fairly major, and i was hurt. he was hurt. i told him i needed some time away from him to sort things out.
and i got that time, and space.
and i sorted through it, and im over it. i forgive him, and myself, for what happened. ive moved on, and given it to God.

but apparently its still one of the things hes working through.
and i feel bad.
i feel bad becuase im over it, and hes not.
i feel responsible, for how he feels.

should i be over this?
i mean, i know that i should. but...
why cant he be over it too...

he asked me to pray with him. i told him that it would be a bad idea. he agreed. he asked me to pray for him. to this i agreed.
however my own prayer life hasnt been great, so we'll see if it actually happens...

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